“I’m glad someone asked about something I needed info on. Best part about this community.”
That comment from a coach in our community captures something important. The question wasn’t theirs. But the answer helped them anyway.
That’s the community effect. You benefit from other people’s questions, other people’s problems, other people’s solutions. The collective knowledge becomes available to everyone.
Most grassroots coaches never experience this. They coach alone.
The Isolation Problem
Think about how most grassroots coaching works.
You volunteer to help a team. Maybe your kid plays, maybe you just wanted to contribute. You get a whistle, some cones, and a pitch booking. Off you go.
Nobody trained alongside you. Nobody observes your sessions. Nobody offers feedback or perspective. You design alone, deliver alone, reflect alone.
This isolation creates real problems.
You Only See Your Own Blind Spots
When you only experience your own sessions, you only see what you already see.
What seems normal to you might be obviously problematic to outside eyes. The habit you don’t notice. The explanation that doesn’t land. The activity that doesn’t work as well as you think.
Without external perspective, blind spots stay blind.
Mistakes Repeat
Without feedback, you make the same errors over and over. Patterns that don’t work persist because nobody tells you they’re not working.
“I’ve been doing it this way for years” often means “I’ve been making this mistake for years.”
The feedback that could fix things never arrives because you’re coaching alone.
Development Plateaus
Solo coaches reach a level and stay there. They exhaust their own ideas, their own knowledge, their own perspective.
External input is needed to see the next level. Without it, you plateau indefinitely.
Burnout Accelerates
Carrying every challenge alone is exhausting.
Every problem is your problem. Every solution must come from you. Every difficult parent, every struggling player, every session that doesn’t work - all yours to handle.
Isolation accelerates burnout because there’s nobody to share the load.
What Community Changes
Ideas You Wouldn’t Have
“I’ve been looking through old posts this week and finding some excellent stuff that I hadn’t noticed before.”
Other coaches have solved problems you’re currently facing. They’ve tried approaches you haven’t considered. They’ve found what works through their own trial and error.
When you’re connected, their discoveries become available to you. Years of collective experience accessible in minutes.
Problems Get Processed
Talking through challenges clarifies them. Sometimes you don’t know what you think until you try to explain it to someone else.
Community members help you:
- See angles you hadn’t considered
- Think of options that didn’t occur to you
- Validate your thinking when it’s sound
- Challenge your thinking when it needs challenging
The problem that felt insurmountable often becomes manageable once you’ve talked it through.
Emotional Support Exists
“It is a safe place for my coaching.”
Sometimes you don’t need solutions. You need someone to say “that’s hard” or “that happened to me too” or “you’re not crazy for feeling frustrated.”
Coaching includes emotional labour that rarely gets acknowledged. Difficult conversations. Disappointed players. Unreasonable parents. Matches that go wrong.
Communities share that load. You’re not the only one dealing with this stuff.
Accountability Appears
When others know what you’re working on, you’re more likely to follow through.
Saying “I’m going to focus on defending this month” to a community creates gentle accountability. Someone might ask how it’s going. You don’t want to say you didn’t actually do it.
This isn’t pressure. It’s support for doing what you already wanted to do.
Perspective Calibrates
You think your challenges are unique. Communities show you they’re common. The thing you’re struggling with? Others struggled with it too. You’re not failing - you’re facing normal coaching problems.
You think your successes are ordinary. Communities show you they’re worth celebrating. The breakthrough you had? Others recognise what an achievement it is. You’re making progress worth acknowledging.
Contributing, Not Just Consuming
Communities work best when members give as well as take.
Share what works. Your successful session could help someone struggling for ideas tonight. The activity you love might become someone else’s favourite too.
Share what failed. Your mistakes could prevent someone else making them. Failure shared is failure useful.
Answer questions. Your experience is valuable even when it doesn’t feel like it. The thing that seems obvious to you might be exactly what someone needs to hear.
Engage genuinely. Not just asking for help when you need it. Responding to others. Celebrating their wins. Supporting their struggles.
“You give a lot to this community and in a mostly productive way. I always learn something from your posts.”
That’s how community members become valued. By contributing, not just consuming.
The Acceleration Effect
“All of this has made me a better coach.”
Coaches connected to communities develop faster than coaches working alone. The input, feedback, ideas, and support accelerate everything.
Problems get solved quicker because someone’s already solved them. Ideas improve because others build on them. Motivation sustains because you’re not carrying it alone.
The difference between connected coaches and isolated coaches compounds over time. A few years in, the gap is substantial.
Finding Your People
The Football Coaching Academy is one option - 1,600+ coaches sharing ideas and supporting each other. But it’s not the only option.
Local networks - coaches in your area, face-to-face connections, shared local context.
Course connections - fellow coaches from qualifications, built-in common ground.
Social media - following and engaging with other coaches, lower barrier to entry.
The format matters less than the connection. Find coaches you can learn from, contribute to, and grow alongside.
You Don’t Have to Coach Alone
Grassroots coaching defaults to isolation. But it doesn’t have to stay there.
Find your people. Connect with coaches facing similar challenges. Share what you’re learning. Learn from what they’re sharing.
The challenges become lighter. The development becomes faster. The journey becomes better.
Coaching is hard enough. Don’t make it harder by doing it alone.
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